2021.10.22 09:17 RamenNoodles620 Bride keeps changing plus one rules, gets upset when people don't like that
This is a story of my SOs cousin and her lack of any awareness.
People involved: My SO: Erin SOs cousin/bride to be: Mary SOs cousin/bridesmaid: Meg SOs sister: Jess
Mary is getting married on NYE. Only her parents live in the same city as her. All other family will need to fly in from a few states away or drive 6+ hours. Due to the distance and time of the wedding, people will need to take Friday off or come the night before, and work remotely on Friday if possible. Which is not too bad in general, but her wedding is at her parents house so she was not restricted to certain dates.
Mary did not initially give a plus one to Meg who is a bridesmaid or to Jess. Mary's initial rule was plus ones are for people who are married or living together. This is not unreasonable. Meg was not seeing anyone at the time a wedding date was picked. Jess had been seeing someone for over 2 years at that point though and was disappointed her bf was not included. Especially since it meant they wouldn't be able to ring in the new year together. She accepted it though and moved on.
Recently heard that Meg had been seeing someone for around half a year and her bf was invited to the wedding. Jess' still was not. Turns out Mary initially told Meg she could bring her bf. Then changed her mind which upset Meg since they already booked flights and made plans. Mary called Meg and told her she was being selfish, inconsiderate and should be thinking about the bride, Mary, and her feelings. Meg told her it is her wedding, but that doesn't mean she can do whatever she wants. Other peoples feelings still matter. Mary should have just stuck to her initial rule about plus ones instead of telling Meg she could bring her bf. Mary has since changed her mind again and will give Meg a plus one. Jess still does not have a plus one.
The whole plus one situation would make sense if it was at a venue that needed to know table arrangements, capacity reasons and/or food related. Mary's wedding reception is at her parents home. A very nice home, but it will be buffet style and there won't be any actual seats. Just a tent and tables around for people to put their drinks and food down. I have no problem with that. It does mean there is flexibility on who can come and Mary is making all this into a bigger deal than it really needs to be.
The funniest part about Mary calling Meg inconsiderate is what her reactions was to me and Erin's wedding date. Erin and I had to postpone our wedding. Venue only had three dates available this year. Options were the same weekend as our friends already planned wedding, Saturday of Thanksgiving weekend or early December. We chose early December as it made the most sense out of those three dates. Mary called Erin and told her it was very selfish and inconsiderate of us to pick a date in December without talking to her. That Mary's mother and other family were upset. This was false and only said to make Erin feel bad. Only person who really cared was Mary. Her immediate reaction was not "it sucks they had to push their wedding almost a year, but glad they got a date" or to even realize we would have limited options. It was how dare they have a wedding in the same month as me. At the time we picked the new date, Mary had not officially picked a date and they did not even know it if would be a very small wedding or a larger one. The very small wedding would have meant immediate family only.
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2021.10.22 09:17 bigOlBellyButton I really wish people would stop defending Nintendo's pricing by referring to their quality as objectively the best.
Nintendo games are very well made and polished. I think we can all agree on that. But time after time I see people defending Nintendo's pricing by saying their games are objectively the best, and that just sounds really dismissive and fanboyish. Everyone has their own tastes, and you shouldn't shrug off people's concerns just because every game is worth $60 to you.
I rarely, if ever buy games at full price anymore. As a working adult with bills, a family, and limited time I just can't justify spending that much on a single game any more. That doesn't mean i don't enjoy Nintendo games. I would like to play Donkey Kong or Luigi's Mansion, but not at $60 each.
And even if i did have that much disposable income, maybe those games just aren't worth $60 FOR ME. Maybe they're worth buying at $30 for me. For any other console this isn't a problem. You just wait a few months or years and the game inevitably drops. My switch hasn't seen any action in years because nothing ever drops. And quality isn't an excuse. Nintendo isn't the only one who makes great games, but they are the only ones who refuse to budge even a little on their prices.
I know i sound l like i hate Nintendo. I really don't. I just wish people would stop giving them a free pass for their prices.
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